Friday, February 3, 2012

The Special One


As it is my daughters 6th birthday today, I thought I'd share her birth story - note that I wrote this 6 years ago not long after my daughter was born. For those not keen on detail, stop reading now!!

After arriving 6 weeks early, I’m still a little shell shocked in re-telling my story of the birth of our baby daughter, Anaki, but I’ll give it a go.

On Monday 30th January (my birthday), I went to the hospital after discovering a “show.”
After an internal examination it was determined that my mucus plug was breaking away but it was big enough and there was enough left for there to be no concern. The OB commented that it was good to see my cervix getting into action – although my due date was 6 weeks away.

I went to work as usual on Tuesday and just felt a bit irritable – I mean I’d been feeling pretty irritable for most of my pregnancy due to the sleepless nights and heat – but this was a different irritable. I was a bit fidgety and did go to the toilet quite a bit more than usual but I put it down to the heat. On the train on the way home from work, I felt stomach cramps and a need to go to the toilet. I tried numerous times when I got home, but nothing would happen. On the third
attempt at around 6pm, I felt like I’d done a pee but hadn’t. Very strange feeling. I called my husband and said I think my waters broke but was unsure because it wasn’t the “gush” they usually describe. I decided to ring my sister to see what she thought – having been there before.

My sister assured me it would be a “gush” if my waters had broke but she said she’d phone around her female friends to double check. While she did that, I continued eating dinner with mild stomach cramps. She phoned back after a few minutes and said that a friend of hers had had what I described and she’d gone into labour not long after, so she thought it was wise to call the hospital. I phone the hospital and described what happened. The midwife suggested I sit still for half an hour and then get up and see if I loose any more fluid. If I did to call them back. So I sat for half an hour munching on M&M’s. After half an hour I stood up and lost more fluid – this time with a pink tinge. I phoned the hospital and they said to come in.

Not thinking much of it all, I took a few essentials and the baby’s bag which I had packed a little early. I made my husband stop at the servo station to grab some things I hadn’t got around to getting and we made our way in – only 20 mins drive. On arrival I was taken to the birth suite nd
made to wait until the OB could see me. There were many births happening that night. My cramping had pretty much gone at this stage but I was still dribbling fluid. The OB checked and said my waters had ruptured and I had a hind water leak. Due to protocol and risk of infection I was required to stay in hospital. My husband had to go home (by this stage it was about 1.30am) and I was left on my own in the maternity ward to cry myself to sleep as this whole birth thing was really not going the way I thought. Being a first time, it was all getting a bit too much.

The next day, a team of OB’s and OB’s in training came to see me. They said that because baby was early I was required to have 2 injections of steroids to ensure baby’s lungs developed in case of an early delivery and they would induce me the coming Monday should nothing have developed naturally by then. The steroid injections are very much like having a tetnus needle in your leg – ouch.

Come Friday, I was pretty much sick of hospital. I had 2 ladies with baby’s rooming in – this
is an excellent idea but when you haven’t had your baby yet and you are being kept awake from 10pm-4am each night by crying babies, it can be a little tiring. So I was pretty grumpy Friday
morning and I really felt like I had PMT with cramps and the moodiness that I usually get. This continued all day. By night time when my husband and sister arrived (my support people), the cramps were having a definite pattern and they were twice as bad as the ones you get with PMT. My sister kept saying I’m in early labour but even after monitoring we could not convince the midwives as they said I was talking through the pain so it mustn’t be. I was doing more than talking through the pain. I was on hands in knees in the bed rocking around trying to breathe, getting up and walking around. Anything to ease the pain.

By the time my husband and sister had to leave as visiting hours were up, we had convinced the midwives that I was in considerable pain and they gave me sleeping tablets and some oral pain killers. The sleeping tablets kicked in but the pain killers did nothing. I was now a zombie
woman walking around trying to ease the pain. After an hour of no relief, I called the midwife and asked for pethidine – anything to allow me to sleep. I got a shot of pethidine and was moved to birth suite for more monitoring.

I was dozing on and off but still feeling every cramp – these were coming more and more often (before my sister left she’d timed them every 3 minutes – still no one believed it to be early labour). After 3 hours of laying in the birth suite (it was now around 3.30am Saturday 4th Feb.) being monitored and still suffering pain, they decided to move me back to the maternity ward. I sat up to get ready and felt a balloon pop and water gush. Ooops!! I rang for the midwife and said that I think the second layer of waters must’ve broke. She said to go to the toilet and let them know what colour it is. I got to the toilet sat down and really felt the urge to push – so I panicked. I was calling out from the toilet for someone to come and help me. The midwife came and I said I feel like pushing but thought the baby might come out. She said to get off the toilet – she had to help me because by this time the pain was awful. I kept telling them to call my husband. I was adament not to push until he got here – no way was he missing the birth.

I was moved to a proper birthing suite and propped up in bed – there went my plans of active birth as baby still needed to be monitored due to being premmie. They prodded my stomach and said they couldn’t find the baby’s head. I said that it had been down for a while but they couldn’t feel it. They could feel lots of limbs and asked if I was having one – I said I was pretty sure!!! They decided to do an internal to see what was happening. No surprise when they said they could feel the head and that I was fully dialated. Thank goodness all that pain during the day
had not been for nothing!!!

I started pushing as the urge took over and tried to remember deep breaths in between. I
can’t begin to describe the feeling. It was like I wanted to push and needed to push but would start and be frightened by the pain that I would stop. My husband turned up – and I was so relieved as I knew I could now go for it. So go for it I did. Pushing and breathing and screaming and roaring. My sister showed up a bit later – they hadn’t called her but my husband did.
So they both supported my head and shoulders as the bed shook with the effort of pushing. I was adament that this head was going to come out, therefore I wouldn’t let it slip back (something I’d pay for later). After about 6-8 pushes our baby girl, Anaki was born. I ended up with a 2 degree tear because I hadn’t let her head slip back – I really didn’t want to repeat the effort each time. She was wisked away by the pedatrition and my husband to be checked over – due to being premmie. My husband panicked a bit when she started going pink, not knowing that this was a good thing!!! She scored an 8 on the Apgar test after 1 minute and 9 after 5 so she was doing really well. Weighing in at 2.53kg and 42 cm long, she really wasn’t a small premmie.

Due to being 6 weeks early, Anaki was required to spend time in the Special Care Nursery with a drip to administer antibiotics, sleep in a humidy crib, and have her blood sugar tested. I was allowed to visit after my stitches were complete and I’d had a shower. I was feeling pretty shattered by this stage – the actual birth only lasted 40mins so it was quick and my legs
were shaky, feeling like I’d run a marathon. Anaki had a feed from me and then was put back into the crib as I was falling asleep. I was taken back to the maternity ward for breakfast – which I threw up – as I said it really had taken a lot out of me. Then I slept.

Anaki spent 4 days in Special Care – I had to take her temperature, change her and establish breast feeding. Some of the time she was fed through a tube as the breast feeding took a while to establish – being premmie this is expected. Anyway, to cut a longer story short, we both were discharged on Wednesday 8th February and are now doing really well at home. Breastfeeding
still has it’s challenges but Anaki sleeps a lot and has been going on morning walks with mum and enjoys the pram. After a tramatic entry into the world she is doing really well. I’m so much more relaxed being home rather than at the hospital where some midwives are not very supportive (another story) and others contradict each other with the advice. I’m feeding on demand rather than the “every 4 hours” they were enforcing in the hospital and I think we are really getting somewhere.

So that’s my story!!! Sorry it’s so long!!

Library Day in the Life - final post

Well it has come to an end of the week for Library Day in the Life - I look forward to my next blog challenge.

Again the day started with the local steiner school students inundating the library - they only stayed for 2 hours today.

I had one of my favourite library volunteers work with me today. She has almost completed her Cert IV in LIS and is a great help. It is a shame I don't have any open vacancies in my libraries for her to apply for as yet but she still enjoys giving us a hand.

I had a meeting with the Council finance manager but this proved to be false and as a means to get me to attend a morning tea to celebrate my birthday (which was on Monday) and another staff members departure - very tricky but a lovely surprise. I apologised for not staying longer but with the steiner students in the library and only my volunteer there to assist them, I had to rescue her!!

Once the steiner students left the library was very quiet. Although every computer was occupied there was few borrowing books. That was thankful as the boxes arrived and my volunteer and I concentrated on getting the books returned, reservations allocated and shelving done.

Lunch time - off to the pool to do laps and guess where the steiner students were!! There were a few "hello library lady" shouted at me while I was doing my laps. Only hit 44 instead of 50 due to lack of time but it was refreshing.

Back to work and a line up at the door - most wanting computers. Another quiet moment and I caught up with some emails, twitter posts and posted some items to our library facebook page.

The afternoon then flowed on without drama - a nice way to end the week.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

Library Day in the Life - Post #4

Again I'm posting a bit late - sorry!!

Due to the flooding, our local steiner school booked the library to be used as makeshift classrooms. So approximately 30 odd (down a bit on yesterdays estimate) students and three teachers entered the library at 9.30am an hour before official opening. I also had to make a quick visit to our "web developer" to obtain an electronic copy of our Council logo to be sent to the company who is making our NYR12 pull up banners.

I got on with the opening duties - running notices, delivering mail, buying the newspaper, returning items and shelving. All I can say is thank goodness I had one of my volunteers with me today to assist with the shelving as it was a constant stream at the circulation desk.

Once the shelving was complete, I got my volunteer to start selecting books for the blind date books we are having during Library Lovers Day and the following weeks. These books are then wrapped in brown paper (with the accession number on the outside) and placed on display for selection from our brave borrowers who have no idea what they are selecting. It was successful last year and we hope again this year.

Some of the steiner students were looking for books on Rome - so I assisted them - and was happy to see their teacher teaching them the ins and outs of searching the catalogue. A few were lazy and went direct to me but the majority did it themselves.

At 12.30pm I closed the library for lunch (as there is only one staff member on and my volunteer finished for the day) and headed to the pool for my lunch time laps. I had to take it easy today due to a calf cramp I suffered on Tuesday seems to have resulted in a slightly pulled muscle - so I only managed 44 laps compared to my 50.

Back from lunch to a crowd of people waiting to get in to the library. Most wanting to use computers or wifi. I went back to returning, shelving and serving at the circulation desk. As I mentioned before - constant stream.

Later in the afternoon one of the organisers of the Bellingen Readers and Writers Festival came by with more programs and another room booking request for the library. The Library will be hosting a number of sessions leading up to and during the festival. I love supporting the festival as it not only means seeing a number of excellent presentations by authors, but many people enter the library who would not necessarily visit otherwise.

I then had a moment to catch up on emails, check some facebook and twitter updates and then it was time for closing. A quick check of the gate count revealed over 350 people passed through the door - no wonder I didn't stop!! It may not be much for a big branch but when there is only one person manning (womanning) the library then it's a big deal.

I packed up the books to take to the branch close to home and locked up. Once at the other branch I exchanged books and took the ones for our branch and headed home.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Library Day in the Life - Post #3

Sorry for the delay in putting this post up but I was a tad exhausted after work and then my daughter took over the computer to play games.

I started the day with an hour and half drive to our library service HQ where one of our book suppliers was coming to visit. The deal is the book supplier brings many many boxes of books and the regional librarian, the coordinator of the other branch libraries and I go through and select which ones we'd like to purchase for our library service.

In a past job, I did book selection for the 900 DDC area. But when I started in this position, book selection was not a part of my role. The HQ staff would select the books for the library service and branch staff would be able to have input via submission of Requests for Purchase. I really missed book selection, and there is nothing like having someone with local knowledge of their branch libraries to know what will and won't be read.

Since our new Regional Librarian started 12 months ago, I have been invited to attend book selection days. There are usually around 2 a month. Of course we use more than 2 book suppliers but these are the only 2 we have organised to visit. It can take us 2-3 hours to do this process depending on how many books we have to go through.

We have a standing order which makes the process a bit easier, and of course, large print and audio books are purchased in a different manner so we don't have to go through those formats. We are now also in the process of building a DVD collection - yes we don't have one. We must be the only library service in Australia that doesn't have a DVD collection. But now we do - albeit small - at this stage. So we will also be selecting DVDs.

The process we go through is the book supplier will show us all the adult fiction, then junior easies, junior fiction, young adult fiction, junior non-fiction and adult fiction. We pick out the ones we think we should have in the collection and other HQ staff check these against the catalogue to ensure we don't already have them.

Once selection was completed, the Regional Librarian, coordinator of other branch libraries and I had a meeting to do final preparation for Library Lovers Day and the launch of National Year of Reading which is happening on 14 February. We then headed to the local pub for our $10 lunch specials - the pub is actually a nice place to eat as we eat on the verandah that overlooks a river.

After lunch I packed up the boxes to take back to my branches, had a look at some draft posters for an activity we are running this year and bid farewell. Back in my main branch library it had been raining fairly steadily all day and the staff had discovered a leak in one of the skylights - unfortunately there were some stock that did not fair well. The leak is something I will have to follow up with facilities staff today as they didn't make it over yesterday. The river is once again up so I was lucky that my relief staff made it as they live on the other side of the river which gets cut off from the main part of town.

It has been raining fairly heavily for most of last night but I have checked river heights and it looks like the bridge has not gone under.

On my way home I got a call from said relief staff who said that the local Steiner school had called and asked if they could use the library study rooms to run their school tomorrow as they are flooded out - i.e. they can't get to their school. So I look forward to approx. 40 odd students in the library tomorrow!!